What's Love,Life,Labor & Leisure all about??

A Big Hello and a Hug and a Kiss to those few who are going to read this first ever blog post of mine..

This Blog is going to talk about all kinds of issues - personal, professional, psychological, and how you can battle it,cope with it, manage or get through it as I have been doing and hopefully Together we can overcome these barriers someday. 

Don't Worry - We're also going to have a lot of fun.. I want to take you all through journeys and I want to know about yours in our everyday life..

I don't want to start of with a major topic today but I want to give you all a glimpse of what I would share with everyone in the coming days. One of the most Dynamic and Amazing Women of our times  - Oprah Winfrey once said - 

"Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure."

How many of us find it difficult to do "LET GO"?? Forget Daily! How many of us find it difficult to LET GO even a couple times a month or a year or ever in our life up until now??

What does "Letting Go" mean to us ? What kind of situations does "Letting Go" apply to?

My thoughts :

Letting go can apply to relationships, jobs, unwanted baggage, people, family, love, stress, tension, belief, faith etc. 

Letting go needn't necessarily require abandonment, resentment, deserting, bitterness, stress, violence, alcohol, drugs etc.

Letting go should be more about learning to accept certain realities and move on from those either by reconciliation or by moving away from these situations.

Sometimes I try so hard and I truly want to let go but I find emotional attachments , pressures, expectations, standards, commitments that come in the way. 

Its not bad to have some of these factors bind you in making the right decisions but when the situation in itself is not the right one for you to be in knowing yourself and how much you can handle, sometimes you don't have a choice but to "LET GO" and no matter how hard and difficult it is, it is but fair to yourself and to those around you that you "LET GO" and move on to newer experiences where you are not required to face the same situations to the best extent possible.

Forget about what people think or are going to say and who's going to have an opinion about your decision. YOU CANNOT MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY !! 

YOU CANNOT CHANGE EVERYONE !!

You have got to put "YOU" first in order to be able to be the best for the important people and the important events in your Life. If you don't have "YOU" in order, how are you ever going to be able to be the BEST you can in other people's lives and situations..?

I leave this discussion on this note and since its my first post, I would especially love to hear from each one of you that read this even if its a line about your life and how you are "LETTING GO" and if you have thoughts on any of the above.. 

Until my next POST, 

Goodnight, Guten Nacht and Tisbah Ala Khair <3
FRIEDA